1、夫妻两人吵架的道歉不一定是卑躬屈膝，他不一定是昧着自己的良心说我错了，他最重要的是传递，他不想再继续跟你吵下去的妥协，无论他怎么生气，最在乎的人终究是我。很幸运我遇到了一个安全型的爱人。
The apology for the quarrel between the couple does not necessarily mean servile, he does not necessarily say I am wrong in spite of his conscience, the most important thing for him is to pass on, he does not want to continue to quarrel with you, no matter how angry he is, the person he cares about most is me. I'm lucky to have met a secure lover.
2、这世界上没有天生就适合的两个人，所有让人羡慕的爱情，都是相互迁就，相互包容，相互磨合而来的。
In this world, there are no two people who are naturally suitable for each other. All the envied love comes from mutual accommodation, mutual tolerance and mutual running-in.
3、在婚姻里不止有爱，还有肝胆相照的义气，不离不弃的默契，和刻骨铭心的恩情，最可贵的不是我们曾经在众多中选择了彼此，而是无论过多久，我们在众多选择中仍然会选择彼此。
There is not only love in marriage, but also the loyalty of each other with all sincerity, the tacit understanding of never leaving, and the kindness that is engraved on my heart. The most valuable thing is not that we have chosen each other in many, but that no matter how long it takes, we will still choose each other in many choices
4、真正的爱，终是不关风月，不问风情，而是醉心于平淡的流年，在时光里相守，在困苦间相牵，在老去中相望。
True love, the end is not romantic, not catch amorous feelings, but intoxicated in the insipid fleeting time, in the time together, in the hardship of the phase, in the old in each other.
5、原以为嫁给了爱情就会很幸福，可现实却打破了我所有的幻想。
I thought married to love will be very happy, but the reality has broken all my illusions.
6、婚姻不是计较和索取，而是互相依赖却又精神独立，是包容理解和爱你。
Marriage is not about caring and taking, but mutual dependence but spiritual independence, is tolerance, understanding and love you.
7、遗憾并不是错过了最好的那个人，而是遇到最好的那个人时，已经把最好的自己弄丢了。
Regret is not missed the best person, but meet the best person, have lost the best self.
8、爱最大的风险之一，是发生冲突时的指责和假谦虚，即我们常常以爱的名义去指责所爱的人。
One of the greatest risks of love is conflict accusation and false modesty, which is that we often accuse the loved one in the name of love.
9、我退出我家，你也应该退出你家，我们去组建一个新家，而不是我从我家退出融入你家。
I quit my house, you should quit yours, and we should start a new home, instead of me quitting my house and joining yours.
